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Counseling Corner

Trimester One - Issue Two

CounselingCornerTrimester One - Issue Two

Welcome to the DHMS Counseling Newsletter

Below you will find some new resources, some old, and some new things we are offering as a counseling team. Please reach out to any one of us if you ever have any questions or concerns.

- Ms. Bechard, Ms. Goodier, Ms. Kunert

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Stress Management Crash Course

When we took the Needs Assessment in early November, the most noticeable thing that popped out to us was that 32% of DHMS students reported they would like help with feeling less stressed. That is a lot! The counseling team has planned several opportunities to address this need and we want to share them with you in this Newsletter so that you can start Tri 2 off to a good start.


We are offering an OPTIONAL 2-part crash course on stress management and reduction. Students need to attend both days if they would like to learn more about stress.


It will be offered to 8th graders on December 5th & 13th during FLEX.

It will be offered to 6th & 7th graders on January 11th & 13th during FLEX.


Location: Lecture Room A


Let your FLEX teacher know if you want to go and they will give you a pass.

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Stress vs. Anxiety

Stress is generally is a response to an external cause, such as taking a big test or arguing with a friend. Stress goes away once the situation is resolved. Stress can be positive or negative. For example, it may inspire you to meet a deadline, or it may cause you to lose sleep.


Anxiety is generally is internal, meaning it's your reaction to stress. Anxiety usually involves a persistent feeling of apprehension or dread that doesn't go away, and that interferes with how you live your life. Anxiety is constant, even if there is no immediate threat.


Both Stress and Anxiety can affect your mind and body. You may experience symptoms such as:

  • Excessive worry
  • Uneasiness
  • Tension
  • Headaches or body pain
  • High blood pressure
  • Loss of sleep


Ways to Cope

  • Keep a journal.
  • Download an app with relaxation exercises.
  • Exercise and eat healthy.
  • Get regular sleep.
  • Avoid excess caffeine.
  • Identify and challenge your negative thoughts.
  • Reach out to friends and family



Life can be stressful. If you are struggling to cope, or the symptoms of your stress or anxiety won’t go away, it could affect your health. All of the above information is directly from National Institute of Mental Health.


Learn more at https://go.usa.gov/xfQKq. #shareNIMH

https://www.nimh.nih.gov/sites/default/files/documents/health/publications/so-stressed-out-fact-sheet/Im-So-Stressed-Out.pdf

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When To Be and What To Do When Concerned

Early identification and treatment are important when it comes to mental health. Parents/guardians are often the first to notice when something is going on with their child or teenager. Moodiness and irritability can be a common response to the stress of school and the changes of adolescence.

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When should parents/guardians be concerned?

Some of the signs that mean a child may need further help from a mental health professional or health care provider include:


  • Less interested in school

  • Dropping grades

  • Does not show feelings

  • Difficulty making or keeping friends

  • Poor grades despite trying hard

  • Constant worry or anxiety

  • Persistent stomach aches or other body aches and pains

  • Refusal to go to school

  • Hyperactivity

  • Difficulty focusing

  • Low energy

  • Does not seem to be having fun

  • Loss of interest in usual activities

  • Sad for long periods of time

  • Irritable

  • Using drugs or alcohol

  • Sleeping less or more than usual

  • Frequent anger or acting out

  • Self Critical

When a child has more than one of these signs, the signs are intense, and they last for more than several weeks, parents/guardians should be concerned.


What Should a Parent Do Next?

Talking with your child or teen is always a good idea to learn more about what is happening in their life such as stress or bullying. Parents/guardians should also discuss their concerns with a professional, some possible professionals to contact are:

  • Your child’s pediatrician
  • Your child’s primary health care worker

  • Your child’s school counselor

    • 8th: Ms. Kunert

    • 7th: Ms. Goodier

    • 6th: Ms. Bechard

  • ISD 196 Site-Based Mental Health Provider (contact counselors to get referred)

These professionals may give your child or teen a mental health screening to determine whether their symptoms may need follow up care.

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Treatment/Possible Options

If a child or teen is diagnosed with depression, anxiety or another mental illness, there are a wide range of treatment options. If medication is presented as one, parents/guardians should weigh the risks and benefits and follow the recommendations regarding follow-up visits and monitoring side effects. It is important to note that there are many effective approaches that do not involve medications and that medication alone is not effective.



Source: NAMI Minnesota, 651-645-2948 or 888-NAMIHELPS www.namihelps.org

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Need Food?

DHMS is partnered with Every Meal - Fighting Child Hunger to provide weekend meals to families in our school community. Every Meal provides a few non-perishable food items each week. It is free of cost to families and the bag of food will be placed in students backpacks for them to take home, every Thursday. Email your counselor if you would like to sign up.
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Study by National Alliance on Mental Illness

A poll conducted by Ipsos on behalf of NAMI finds that most teens are comfortable talking about mental health, but often don’t start the conversation. They also want schools to play a big role in their mental health, and they trust the information they get there, but feel like schools are not doing enough.


Below is a link to the Key Findings. It is pretty comparable to the Needs Assessment we did here at DHMS!


https://www.nami.org/Support-Education/Publications-Reports/Survey-Reports/Poll-of-Teen-Mental-Health-from-Teens-Themselves-%282022%29

https://www.nami.org/Support-Education/Publications-Reports/Survey-Reports/Poll-of-Teen-Mental-Health-from-Teens-Themselves-(2022)/Teen-Mental-Health-Poll-Infographic.pdf

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Questions? Let's connect!

DAKOTA HILLS MIDDLE SCHOOL COUNSELORS


We are available during school hours


Maureen Bechard

6th Grade

Maureen.Bechard@district196.org

651-683-6846


Rachel Goodier

7th Grade

Rachel.Goodier@district196.org

651-683-6868


Erica Kunert

8th Grade

Erica.Kunert@district196.org

651-683-6847

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