Counselor's Corner
September 1, 2024 - Edition 1
Nichols Middle School
Greetings Nichols Middle School parents, guardians and caregivers!
This is the first edition of our monthly counselor newsletter for the 2024 - 2025 school year. We hope to provide connection, information and resources to our families.
Meet Your School Counselors
Angelica DeMari
6th Grade Counselor, uziellidemaria@district65.net
847-859-8650, Ext. 6581
Ms. DeMari just started her 4th year at Nichols and has been working in D65 since the district introduced middle school counselors. Prior to being a school counselor, she worked in substance abuse recovery. She enjoys spending time with her dogs and traveling on her time off.
Donna Dortzbach
7th Grade Counselor, dortzbachd@district65.net
847-859-8650, Ext. 6516
Ms. D just started her 2nd year at Nichols, previously working as a School Counselor in Chicago Public Schools. Prior to working as a counselor, she was a social worker, then stay-at-home mom for many years. This August, she dropped 3 kids off to college!
Terri Nelson
8th Grade Counselor, nelsont@district65.net
847-859-8650, Ext. 6515
Ms. Nelson is starting her 3rd year at Nichols and has been working in school and therapeutic counseling settings for many years, while being a stay at home mother off and on. She has 3 kids who all went through D65, 2 have graduated from ETHS and her youngest is a junior at ETHS.
School Counselors focus in 3 domains:
Academics
Social/Emotional
College/Career Readiness
Through classroom lessons, small groups and individual counseling, we support students with attendance, improving grades, study skills, managing emotions, learning coping skills, navigating relationships with peers and adults, social skills, learning about careers and what careers interest them and postsecondary options. Working closely with teachers, we come alongside your student to help them thrive in school and gain tools for life.
How Students Can Reach Us:
Students can take a photo with their iPad of a QR code posted throughout the hallways and classrooms. The QR code links students to a short "self-referral" form to complete. Form submissions will automatically alert the Student Services Team (counselor and social worker).
Students can ask their teacher if they can see the counselor. The teacher will gauge the level of urgency/necessity, then let us know to check in with the student or contact us immediately if the need is urgent.
Students can email their counselor to request support and we can arrange a time that works best for their need and school day.
Students can stop by our offices during passing periods, before/after school and/or lunch to request time to check in.
Happening this Month:
Mini-Meetings
Throughout September, each counselor will meet with every student in their respective grade levels for a 2 - 3 minute "mini-meeting" to start/continue to get to know them. This is just a brief touch point and opportunity for each student to share some things about themselves and their experience so far this school year.
How You Can Reach Us:
- Email is the best way to reach us. We will respond within 24 - 48 hours.
- You can also call and leave a voicemail message if we are not in our offices.
- If you have any concerns for your student or you would like to share information that will help us support your child, please don't hesitate to contact us.
Highlights
Care Solace is a company contracted by the district to help match individuals with therapy. We can make referrals for students and family members of students. D65 staff and their family members can also utilize their services. If this is something you feel would be beneficial, please reach out to your grade level counselor or use the link below.
Middle School Debate Calling all middle school students: It’s time for debate! The D65 Debate Program, funded by District 65 and covering lunch and transportation costs, offers a structured environment where students can engage in competitive debate, learn to construct and defend arguments and develop their reasoning abilities. Since 2022, we’ve partnered with Argument Centered Education, a renowned organization dedicated to advancing debate and critical thinking skills, ensuring that our students receive high-quality instruction and mentorship. The program allows students to debate in teams or individually against teams from across the city of Chicago and Northwest Indiana.
Intellectual property rights is the national debate topic for this school year. D65 students will be given a set of files, along with other materials to prepare and practice for the tournaments (view 2024-2025 schedule).
Use the button below to register by SEPTEMBER 14! If you have any questions or need assistance, please email Regina Colquitt, Director of Social Studies, at colquittr@district65.net.
Monthly Awareness
National Suicide Prevention Month
Dial 988 (call or text) to reach the National Suicide Prevention Hotline, offering support for anyone experiencing “mental health - related” distress such as thoughts of suicide, substance use crisis, worried about a loved one who needs crisis support, etc.
Know the Warning Signs of Suicide
Talking about the desire to die or feeling hopeless or having no reason to live
Expressing they feel trapped, are in unbearable pain, feel like a burden
Increased use of alcohol/drugs
Anxious, agitated, reckless
Sleeping too little or too much
Withdrawing/isolating
Showing rage
Extreme mood swings
Prolonged sadness
Experiencing a major life crisis
Becoming emotionally distant/detached from people/activities
Recommended books from Ms. Philippe, Nichols Librarian
Middle Grade Recommendation
How to Become a Planet by Nicole Melleby
Ms. Philippe says: An emotionally powerful and realistic read about living with depression.
Young Adult Recommendation
Numb to This: Memoir of a Mass Shooting by Kindra Neely
Ms. Philippe says: This graphic memoir is a clear eyed examination of trauma and resilience.
**Trigger Warning - suicide attempt
Adult Recommendation
It's Kind of a Funny Story by Ned Vizzini
Ms. Philippe says: This fictional story, based on the author's real experiences, is a YA novel with adult crossover appeal made all the more poignant by the author's death by suicide in 2013.
Other recommended reads on this topic:
Thirteen Reasons Why
The Last Time We Say Goodbye
What I Leave Behind
The Astonishing Color of After
My Heart and Other Black Holes
All the Bright Places
Playlist for the Dead
Forgive Me, Leonard Peacock
This Song Will Save Your Life
Self-Improvement Month
Some self-improvement tips for teens can include:
- setting goals
- exercising
- limiting time on social media
- trying new things
- journaling
- building study habits
- time management
Encourage your child to check in with their school counselor for any help with strategies and/or tools to increase self-improvement!
Recommended books from Ms. Philippe, Nichols Librarian
Middle Grade Recommendation
House Arrest by K.A. Holt
Ms. Philippe says: This unforgettable novel in verse will make you laugh and cry, sometimes at the same time.
Young Adult Recommendation
With the Fire On High by Elizabeth Acevedo
Ms. Philippe says: You'll be rooting for Emoni every step of the way as she works towards achieving her dream of becoming a chef.
Adult Recommendation
Skin & Bones by Renee Watson
Ms. Philippe says: Renee Watson's adult debut is just as lyrical, raw and moving as her wonderful middle grade and YA novels.
Upcoming Events
September 18 - School Improvement Day
Non-attendance day for students
Check out the links below for fun activities for your children on their day off.
Lego Club for Teens - Evanston Public Library
1:00 - 3:00
Main Library
Age group: Teens
Event type: STEM & Maker, Games
Test your LEGO building skills, either alone or with a team, in this ultimate LEGO challenge for the chance to win! (Grades 6-12)
Click the link below and scroll down to register for this event.