Mental Health Minute
Associated Clinic of Psychology
Back to School Edition - September 2023
Practice Makes Perfect
Set a sleep schedule: Researchers suggest a minimum 8 hours of sleep per night to maintain a healthy developmental growth for children. Students that have a structured sleep schedule (go to bed at the same time and wake up at the same time) find less less challenges falling asleep, staying asleep, or overall energy.
Socialize: This key component will set the child up for positive interactions and less anxiety when around classmates, in the hallway, or at lunch. Provide and support social opportunities for your child to connect and play with others.
Academics: School demands a lot of your child to focus and complete academic tasks. A student is less likely to struggle with the transition of work if they are exposed to these demands before the first day of school. Try having your son or daughter read for 30 minutes a night. You can also expose them to this type of setting by going to the Zoo or a Museum.
Expectations: School also requires students to follow expectations through out the day. For example: stay in your seat, raise your hand, etc. Try to mirror these tip by setting expectations in your home. I think you'll find that your child has less difficulties with the transition back to school.
Set Goals for the Year: Each school year is an opportunity for your child and family to improve upon the last. Sit down with your child and/or family to discuss the previous year and what they would like to improve. For example: being kind, reading more, etc.
Managing worries or fears
Expression: Give them an opportunity to share their feelings. This an essential first step toward addressing some of their feelings about issues. Try not to talk over them. Listen and validate their feelings.
Check Ins: Check in regularly (ask!) about school work, feelings, social changes, etc. Give them a chance to share their feelings. Again, listen and hear before giving advice or correction.
Ourselves: Manage your own anxiety. Young people are little sponges that soak up all those cues we think they don't notice!
Resilience: Remind them that they can do it! This generation of students have gone through a lot over the past 4 years. It wasn't easy, but they are still ready to go for another school year. Remind them about that. They are a tough bunch of students who are resilient and strong.
Foster Positivity: Worries and fears focus more on the negative outcomes than the positive outcomes. Be their guide toward positivity by reminding them about good outcomes. Even if your child struggles or has a hard day, remind them about their effort and adaptability. It may be tough to do, but there's a silver lining for every situation.
We're Here to Help!
It typically takes a few weeks of adjustment before kids are used to their new routines and schedules. If you notice significant changes in your child’s behavior, such as sleep problems, major appetite changes, behavior or mood changes, or anxiety that makes it difficult for them to function, seek out support and consultation.
Associated Clinic of Psychology is here to provide mental health services to students and their families. Consult with your child's school counselor or contact us directly with questions. www.acp-mn.com or 612-455-8643