Whenever moving to a new position or school, it is so important to first focus on building relationships with colleagues. However, that term "building relationships" can be quite ambiguous. That task is typically easy with certain people but can be a bit more of challenge with others. I would encourage you to a) reflect on who you may be unintentionally avoiding and b) lean into the discomfort and focus more intentionally on those relationships. Sometimes it just takes an awareness and a few small steps to strengthen that connection. This article is a great read about relationships at the workplace. I've summarized a few specific action steps that resonated with me:
1. Just finished a meeting? Overcome the urge to dash out immediately and, instead, approach someone and drop an, "I'm________," followed by a "loved your comment about ______."
2. Have a moment when you return to your computer? Consider sending an email along the lines of: "Thanks for the conversation. Love that we are both __________________. Looking forward to working together."
3. If you could use a second opinion on something, try asking for their input by saying, "I'm working on ________ and would love your perspective on ________."
Often times, it can just be the increased proximity and conversation that builds a relationship. Reflect on who in your workplace you could focus on creating a connection boost.
