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Core Value of the Month -- SERVICE

We share a quote each week during morning announcements. Please consider having a dialogue about the meaning of the quotes and the meaning of RESPONSIBILITY.

Family Culture Talk Questions:

Why Responsibility?

At school, we’re learning that responsibility means taking ownership of our actions, our work, and how we treat others. Families play a huge role in shaping what responsibility looks like at home.

Use these conversation starters to help your child think, reflect, and grow.

1. What Responsibility Means
- What does “being responsible” mean in our family?
- Can you share a time today when you were responsible without being asked?
- What is something you’re proud to take care of at home or in school?
2. Being Responsible for Ourselves
- What do you do each day that shows you take care of yourself?
- Why is it important to finish a task even when you don’t feel like it?
- What helps you remember what you need to do?
3. Being Responsible to Others
- What does responsibility look like when helping family, friends, or pets?
- How does it feel when someone counts on you and you follow through?
- Can you think of a time you helped someone because it was the right choice?
4. Handling Mistakes
- What should we do when we make a mistake?
- Why is telling the truth part of being responsible?
- How can we fix something when we forget a responsibility?
5. Growing as a Family
- What new responsibility are you ready to try this year?
- How can our family help each other stay organized and prepared?
- What do we want responsibility to look and feel like in our home?
Family Activity: “Our Responsibility Statement”

Each person completes the sentence:
“In our family, responsibility means…”
Then create one shared family definition.

YOU ARE THE DRIVER OF YOUR BUS

You can listen the video message by clicking on the button below or read the key points from the video here.

KEY POINTS OF VIDEO MESSAGE:

Throughout the year, especially in December, we focus a lot on the core value of responsibility with our students. It is one of the most important life lessons we can teach them.
One way we help students understand responsibility is through the idea of being the driver of your bus.
- Students learn that they are in control of their actions, their words, and even their thoughts.
- Other people can make you feel upset, confused, or angry, but at the end of the day, you choose how to respond.
- The idea that someone “made me do it” is something we work to move away from.
By the time students get to fifth grade, they can confidently answer the question, “Who is the driver of your bus?” with “I am.” They understand that whether the choice is positive or not so great, they need to own it.
These lessons are not just for kids. I am constantly reviewing what responsibility looks like in my own life too. It is a skill that matters at every age.

A Personal Example

One of my daughters plays competitive soccer and has been feeling burned out after playing nonstop for years. Recently she did not want to go to practice, and that led to a great conversation about responsibility.
I shared with her that she absolutely does not need to stay in the sport forever. But she did make a commitment to her team.
In our family, deciding you do not want to do something anymore does not mean you simply stop showing up. We talk about planning your exit in a way that shows you follow through and can look back and feel proud of how you handled it.
She will finish the commitment she made, and then we will help her make a plan for what comes next.

Culture Talks at Home

I encourage you to have these small culture talks with your children. They do not have to be formal. Honestly, some of the best conversations happen in the car or during everyday moments.
You might ask questions like:
- “What does responsibility look like for you today?”
- “How did you show responsibility at school or at home?”
- “When something goes wrong, how do you choose to respond?”
Our shared work as parents and educators is to help our children grow into good human beings who understand themselves and make thoughtful choices.

Be the Driver of Your Bus

Service

During November, our school community came together to collect more than 3,000 cans and essential items to support families in need. This was an incredible accomplishment, and I’m so grateful for the generosity shown by our students, families, and staff. We also enjoyed a wonderful celebration, highlighted by a visit from the mayor, who shared encouraging words with our students about the importance of service and the meaningful impact we can make when we work together.