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Family Handbook

Stafford County Early Childhood

Family HandbookStafford County Early Childhood

About Our Program About Our Program

We are privileged to have your child enrolled in our program! Head Start, the Virginia Preschool Initiative (VPI), Early Childhood Special Education (ECSE), and Early Head Start are preschool readiness programs that use comprehensive curricula to support development in social-emotional, physical, cognitive, language, literacy, mathematics, science, and social studies skills.

Our Head Start (HS) program is funded to serve 251 children, so some applicants may be placed on a waiting list. HS serves 68 three-year-olds and 183 four-year-olds. Through additional funding from the Virginia Preschool Initiative, we have expanded services to include 83 full-day slots for four-year-old students.


The Early Head Start (EHS) program is funded to serve 28 pregnant women, infants, and toddlers. While Head Start students attend the full 180-day school year, Early Head Start operates year-round with full-year, center-based classes. In addition, 12 EHS families receive home-based services throughout the year.


Eligibility for HS, EHS, and VPI is determined by income and a priority selection process based on family need. All programs provide breakfast, lunch, and a snack. Bus transportation is available for all programs except Early Head Start.


Our ECSE classrooms are language-rich environments designed to help children develop the skills needed for school success. ECSE serves children aged 2 to 5 who have been identified as having a disability. Services and supports are tailored to each child's individual needs as determined by the Individualized Education Program (IEP) team. The ECSE program offers a continuum of services, and several classrooms include peer models who support inclusive learning.


Stafford Early Childhood programs engage the whole family and the broader community. We offer comprehensive services that include education, health, nutrition, disability services, parent involvement, social services, family literacy, and mental health support.

Who to Call Who to Call

North Star

(540) 658- 4090


Principal: Amanda Dorazio

Assistant Principal: Amanda Black

Education Coordinator: Courtney Harris

Special Education Department Chair: Marion Flick

Nurse: Wendy Cline

Office Manager: Cynthia Wood

Mental Health Coordinator: Anastasia Tryfiates

Family and Community Partnerships Coordinator: Katie Dyson Bernstein

Parent Involvement Specialist: To Be Announced


Rising Star

(540) 368-2559

Principal: Amanda Dorazio

Assistant Principal: Stacie Batchelor

Education Coordinator: Lauren Bowling

Special Education Department Chair: Kelly Bennett

Nurse: Bernie Anderson

Office Manager: Crystal Alton

Mental Health Coordinator: Carie Perdue

Family and Community Partnerships Coordinator: Katie Dyson Bernstein

Parent Involvement Specialist: To Be Announced

Language Request Language Request

Please notify the office if you prefer to communicate in a language other than English. Interpreters are available upon request for parent-teacher conferences, home visits, and any scheduled parent meetings or trainings.

Reporting changes in phone, address, or custody Reporting changes in phone, address, or custody

It is required that we have a working telephone number where you can be reached, along with two backup emergency contact numbers. This information is essential for your child’s safety. We must be able to contact you in the event your child needs medical attention. If your phone number or address changes at any time, please notify the front office as soon as possible.

Important Information Important Information

Attendance Policy Attendance Policy

It is expected that all students will attend class daily except in the case of illness or special circumstances. If your child has a fever or communicable disease, please do not expose the other children by sending your child to school. We ask you to call the office to notify the staff if your child will be absent. You will need to send a note when the child returns to school.

North Star

Student arrival is 7:30-7:45 AM.

Students arriving after 7:45 will be marked tardy.

Dismissal is 2:00-2:07.

Rising Star

Student arrival is 9:15-9:30 AM.

Students arriving after 9:30 will be marked tardy.

Dismissal is 3:45-3:52.

Full Day Students-Early Head Start, Head Start and VPI

1-4 Absences

Immediately make direct contact with the parent! This can be done via phone or home visit.

5 Absences

After 5 days of absence a letter will be sent home to the parent regarding absenteeism and the importance of coming to school.

7 Absences

A mandatory face-to-face meeting with the Family Service Worker MUST take place to complete a plan with the parent, this meeting can be a center visit or a home visit. At this meeting a attendance plan will be completed with parents. This plan will create strategies to improve attendance, identifying barriers and how we can assist in getting the child to school everyday.

10 Absences

A mandatory face-to-face meeting with a representative from administration and other pertinent staff MUST take place on site . The Attendance Plan will be revised during the meeting. Discussion will include why the student is absent to determine what resources the family needs to help with good attendance. Staff will reiterate with parents the importance of coming to school, as well as the attendance policy about chronic absenteeism.

15% Absences

If the child has missed more than 15% during their total enrollment period, they will be disenrolled.

15 Consecutive Absences

Stafford County Public Schools Policy States: “Upon reaching 15 consecutive absences for any reason (i.e. excused, unexcused, truant), students shall be withdrawn from the membership roll as required by Virginia law (8 VAC 20-110-130). Students who are withdrawn for 15 consecutive absences are not excused from compulsory attendance requirements and are expected to re-enroll in an approved educational program as soon as possible.”

If a child has an illness or a procedure that keeps them from school, please contact the nurse, office, or Family Service Worker immediately!

Half Day Students-Early Childhood Special Education Program

Early Childhood Special Education students will follow Stafford School Code of Conduct. Pages 52-62 list information about absenteeism.

Bringing or picking up your child Bringing or picking up your child

ID is required to pick up your child and enter our schools. Pictures of IDs on phones are not accepted.

Written permission from a parent or guardian is required for any change in a child’s pick-up or transportation routine, including bus transportation. Please follow up with a phone call to confirm that the written permission has been received.


All visitors must present a physical photo ID, report to the front desk, and sign in. Pictures of IDs will not be accepted. You must sign your child in at the front desk each day.

Only adults aged 18 or older may be listed as emergency contacts. For safety reasons, do not leave young children unattended in your car while signing your child in or out. Staff are required to report any children left unsupervised in a vehicle.

Early dismissal pick-up ends at 1:30 p.m. at North Star and 2:45 p.m. at Rising Star.

After these times, students must be picked up in the car rider line. Transportation changes will not be accepted after 1:30 p.m. (North Star) or 2:45 p.m. (Rising Star).

Authorized persons list Authorized persons list

Parents or guardians must provide a list of emergency/authorized persons allowed to pick up your child. No one else will be permitted to take your child from school or the bus unless you call the office and add their name to the authorized list.

Anyone picking up a child must be at least 18 years old. Please submit additions at least 48 hours in advance to ensure all staff, including the transportation team and bus drivers, are informed.

Custody Agreements Custody Agreements

If you have sole custody of your child, please provide a copy of the legal custody documents to the office. Without court documentation, we cannot enforce custody arrangements.

Non-custodial parents have the right to visit the school and access records unless a court order specifically revokes this right. If custody arrangements change, please notify the office immediately and provide updated legal documents.

Bus Rules Bus Rules

ID is required to pick up your child- everyday, every time. ID is required to pick up your child- everyday, every time.

All children must be accompanied by a parent, guardian, or designated adult (age 18 or older) with a valid photo ID at the bus stop—both in the morning and afternoon.


The Stafford Schools Transportation Department requires that adults be at the bus stop at least 10 minutes before the scheduled arrival time. The bus will not drop off a child unless an authorized adult is present with a photo ID.


If no authorized adult is present, the child will be returned to school, and you will be responsible for picking them up. Repeated incidents may result in a loss of transportation services for Head Start and VPI students.

Mornings

  • Be at the bus stop at least 10 minutes before the scheduled pick-up time.

  • An adult must remain with the child at the stop until the child has safely boarded the bus.

  • Children may not cross the street alone.

  • Be at the designated stop; the bus driver cannot wait due to schedule and traffic constraints.

  • Children must willingly walk from the adult to the bus and transfer to the bus monitor.

  • Parents are not permitted to board the bus or carry their child onto the bus.

Bus drivers and monitors cannot pick up or carry children onto the bus.

Afternoons

  • An authorized adult must be at the designated bus stop at least 10 minutes before the scheduled drop-off time.

  • Come directly to the bus door and clearly state your name and the name of the child you are picking up.

  • Have your photo ID ready every day. Children will not be released without proper ID.

  • Ensure that anyone on your approved pick-up list also brings their photo ID to the bus stop.

  • If no authorized adult is present with ID, the child will be returned to the school for pick-up.

Bus Behavior

Please encourage your child to use appropriate behavior on the bus. Good behavior on the bus for an early childhood student means sitting safely in their seat with their seatbelt fastened, keeping their hands and feet to themselves, and using quiet voices. Children should listen to the bus driver and monitor, follow directions the first time they are given, and treat others with kindness and respect. Staying seated at all times and keeping the aisle clear helps keep everyone safe. Students are also encouraged to use wait their turn and be patient while getting on and off the bus. Practicing these behaviors helps make the bus ride safe for everyone.


BUS RULES for Students:

  • Stay buckled

  • Stay in your seat

  • Use quiet voices

  • Listen and follow directions

  • Keep hands and feet to self

  • No food, chewing gum or drinks (except water)

Loss of Transportation Services

Loss of transportation services can occur when parents/guardians are repeatedly not present with an ID at the bus stop when the bus arrives to drop off the student.

  • 1st time=Warning

  • 2nd time=Lose bus privileges for a day

  • 3rd time=Lose bus privileges for multiple days

  • 4th time=Lose bus privileges for the rest of the school year

Car Rider Procedures Car Rider Procedures

ID is required to pick up your child- everyday, every time.

Car rider procedures vary by location. Rising Star and North Star families will receive site specific information when car rider tags are issued.


Tags are issued by our Transportation Coordinators and are specific to your student. Each family is issued a tag with a number and an A, B, or C. These tags will be specifically linked to the child and adult approved to pick up. Our staff will check in each vehicle by number and verifying the ID matches the approved pick up person. This system allows us to ensure safety and that each student is properly released. Again, ID is required to pick up your child- everyday, every time. Pictures of IDs are not accepted.


All car rider tags should be returned to school upon the completion of the school year.


Clothing, Backpacks and Field Trips Clothing, Backpacks and Field Trips

Clothing

Children should wear comfortable, washable clothing to school. At this age, art activities are frequent and often messy, and students engage in lots of active play—running, jumping, and climbing—so comfort and ease of movement are important. Tennis shoes are strongly recommended. Please do not send your child in sandals, clogs, flip-flops, or similar footwear, as these can be unsafe during physical activities.

On cool or cold days, please dress your child in a coat, hat, gloves, and/or boots. Children go outside daily, except during rain or extreme temperatures. If you need assistance obtaining clothing for your child, please call us—we also have a free on-site clothing closet available.

Backpacks

Clear backpacks are provided for safety reasons and to support open communication. These backpacks make it easy to see notes going back and forth between school and home. Please check your child’s backpack daily. Remove and read all notes and review any work your child has brought home. Return all forms promptly, ensuring they are completed and signed. Keep informational papers at home and mark any important dates on your calendar.

Your child will also bring home a book bag once a week as part of our program’s “homework.” Please read the book with your child, help them draw a picture, and write down what your child wants to say about the story in the notebook provided.

In-School Events

Instead of off-site field trips, our students enjoy regular in-school field trip experiences, which include special programs and activities brought directly into the school.

If you’re interested in volunteering for one of these events, please contact our Family Engagement Specialist. All volunteers must complete a brief training and sign an acknowledgment of school policies and procedures.

Discipline Policy Discipline Policy

Supporting Positive Behavior and Social-Emotional Development

All students are learning how to navigate the school environment. Our program staff are committed to building strong, positive relationships with each child and their family members. Classroom teams use specific strategies to promote connection between students and staff, encourage peer relationships, foster a sense of school family, and help children feel safe, secure, and understood.

Conscious Discipline strategies are used to teach children how to express their needs using assertive language, make positive choices, understand natural consequences, and demonstrate empathy toward others.

Our program uses five social-emotional learning (SEL) curriculums to support children as they develop the ability to manage their emotions and behaviors. These include:

  • Conscious Discipline

  • Al’s Pals

  • Second Step

  • Zones of Regulation

  • Focus Five

Children are given opportunities to practice these skills through guided instruction and positive reinforcement. They are taught calming techniques such as deep breathing, counting, and using sensory tools.


Addressing Significant Behavior Concerns

If a child exhibits significant aggressive behaviors (e.g., kicking, hitting, biting, spitting, or other unsafe actions), they will be temporarily removed from the classroom for the safety of all students and staff. In such cases, the parent or guardian will be asked to come to the school for a meeting with the Mental Health Coordinator, classroom Teacher, and Principal and/or Assistant Principal. During this meeting, a behavior support plan will be developed with strategies to be implemented both at school and at home.

Parents will be asked to take an active role in carrying out strategies to support their child’s progress. If aggressive or inappropriate behaviors persist, it is critical that families and school staff continue to work in close partnership—holding follow-up meetings and adjusting the support plan as needed to address the child’s needs.


While Stafford Schools Early Childhood Programs do not suspend students unless there is a violation of the Stafford Schools Code of Conduct, the reduction-of-day policy is in place to support children who are struggling to maintain safety in the classroom.

Mandated Reporters Mandated Reporters

Child Abuse and Neglect

Under Virginia law, school staff are required to report suspected cases of child abuse or neglect to the Department of Social Services. Teachers must be alert to signs of abuse and report any suspicions to the assistant principal or principal.


According to Virginia law, an abused or neglected child is any child under 18 years of age whose parents or caregiver:

  • causes or threatens to cause a non-accidental physical or mental injury;

  • neglects or refuses to provide adequate food, clothing, shelter, emotional nurturing or health care;

  • abandons the child;

  • neglects or refuses to provide adequate supervision in relation to a child’s age and level of development; or

  • commits, or allows to be committed, any illegal sexual act upon a child, including incest, rape, indecent exposure, prostitution, or allows a child to be used in any sexually explicit visual material.


RESOURCES

We are here to support you with any parenting challenges you may face. If you are experiencing difficulties with your child’s behavior, please contact the Mental Health Coordinator. If you need assistance with providing adequate care or supervision for your child, reach out to your Family Service Worker. For help understanding your child’s disability or for information about support groups, please visit the Parent Teacher Resource Center. We want to help you every step of the way.

Health Information Health Information

Health, Dental and Safety

The school nurse also serves as the Health Manager, maintaining health records for all students, assisting parents in meeting Head Start requirements for physical and dental evaluations, and helping families obtain appropriate follow-up care. The Health Manager oversees all health, dental, nutrition, and safety aspects of all programs (ECSE, Head Start, and VPI).

Medications

Medications must be brought to school by a parent and cannot be sent on the bus. A medication administration form, completed by a doctor, is required, and the medication must be in its original prescription container. For children on long-term medications, a Parent Communication Notebook will be used to document daily medication effects and to provide a record for the doctor.

Health Care Requirements and Annual Screenings

  • Physical Examinations (All students): Includes a complete physical exam and TB risk assessment. Hemoglobin or hematocrit tests and lead screening are required for Head Start and VPI students.

  • Immunizations (All students): Records of DPT, OPV, MMR, HIB, HBV, and VAR must be current and on file. Hepatitis A vaccination is also required for Head Start and VPI students.

  • Dental Examination (Head Start/VPI only): Includes cleaning, fluoride treatment, and follow-up care for any cavities.

  • Developmental Screening (Head Start/VPI only): Uses the Developmental Indicators for the Assessment of Learning (DIAL) to identify developmental concerns.

  • Hearing and Vision Screening: Conducted by the school nurse, Lions Club, and/or volunteer physicians and staff. Referrals are made as needed.

  • Height and Weight: Recorded by the school nurse. Concerns are shared with families, and referrals may be made to appropriate agencies, physicians, or registered dietitians.

  • Nutrition (Head Start/VPI only): Body Mass Index (BMI) is calculated for every child, and nutrition screenings are conducted by a registered dietitian. Individual menus are designed or approved by the dietitian when required by a physician.


Food and Nutrition

We serve nutritionally balanced meals to our children because we believe in the importance of physical well-being. VPI and ECSE students may bring their own lunches and snacks; however, families are encouraged to use the school cafeteria and to apply for free and reduced-price meals. All of our students receive free meals and snacks in accordance with federal requirements.

Our cafeteria manager and school nutritionist plan well-balanced meals and strive to introduce a variety of foods rich in vitamins, minerals, and essential nutrients. Children are encouraged, but never forced, to eat their meals. Please inform your child’s teacher and the school nurse if your child has food allergies or dietary restrictions for religious reasons.


There are specific nutrition guidelines required by the Head Start program that apply to its students. All food served to Head Start and Early Head Start students must follow an approved menu. Head Start children receive free breakfast and lunch served family-style, as well as a snack. Both Head Start and Early Head Start participate in the USDA meals program. A registered dietitian assists with menu planning and addresses the children’s nutritional needs.

Your child will be weighed in the fall and spring. If any growth concerns arise, the Health Manager or registered dietitian will contact you.


Program-wide Policy:
Due to food allergies, no food may be sent in for birthdays or class parties. Parents are encouraged to celebrate birthdays by arranging a special visit to the classroom, reading a book to the class, or other activities coordinated in advance with the child’s teacher.


Education Services Education Services

All Early Childhood teachers work collaboratively to plan engaging learning experiences that are developmentally appropriate for their students.

The curriculum is based on the Teaching Strategies Creative Curriculum and addresses all areas of cognitive and developmental growth, including language and literacy, math readiness, science, health and nutrition, social skills, self-help skills, fine and gross motor skills. The children will receive instruction through individual assistance, large group and small group activities. Art, music and outdoor play activities are planned daily. Many opportunities for student choice are presented throughout the day. Young children learn by actively exploring and interacting with their environment. A well-organized classroom, rich in learning materials, supports learning and growth. The space is organized into different centers for learning.


Parents are encouraged to read to their child and are given ideas for fun learning activities at home. If you have input for curriculum ideas or have observations of your child’s progress, please contact our teaching staff. For all early childhood students, the Desired Results Developmental Profile (DRDP) Assessment is completed in November, February, and May and shared with parents. In addition, ECSE teachers also provide progress reports on IEP goals. As a full year program, Early Head Start assessments also are completed and shared at the end of July. Individual objectives for each child are developed with parents and revised in January/February.


Home Visiting

Home visiting is an important part of our Early Childhood program. Head Start, EHS and VPI parents are expected to meet at least four times a year with their child’s teacher. Two of those conferences should be in the child’s home, so that the child and the teacher can meet in the most comfortable environment for the child. ECSE teachers will schedule parent contacts/visits according to the IEP for each student. Our Early Childhood calendar sets aside specific days for home visits.


Disabilities

Early Childhood Special Education (ECSE) serves children who are found eligible for special education services and meet the requirements outlined in their Individualized Education Plan (IEP). Staff screen each child in areas such as self-help, social, motor, language, speech, and cognitive development. Any concerns or referrals are shared with parents.


The school’s Student Education Committee reviews referrals from any source to determine whether further evaluation is needed to assess eligibility for special education services. If you have concerns about your child’s learning or development, please contact your child’s teacher, the Principal, Assistant Principal, or an ECSE Department Chair.


The Stafford County Public Schools Parent Teacher Resource Center offers support, training, and resources to parents and teachers of children with special needs. It also provides materials on parenting for all parents, including those whose children do not receive special education services.

Mental Health

A Mental Health Coordinator, also referred to as a school social worker, is available on-site to screen your child’s emotional and behavioral health, offer parenting support and advice, and provide referrals for services that may benefit your child or family.


All children receive social-emotional instruction in the classroom to help them develop important skills such as self-regulation, problem-solving, initiative, and healthy social interactions.

Parent Involvement Parent Involvement

Parent and Community Volunteers

We welcome parent volunteers as well as volunteers from the community. Our volunteers include students from local middle and high schools, college students, senior citizens, local business owners, members of public service organizations, Marines, and friends of Head Start. Our staff actively seek to engage community resources to support the goals and objectives of our program.

If you have a special talent, a donation to offer, or simply want to give your time, please contact our Family and Community Partnership Coordinator or Family Engagement Specialist. All volunteers are required to complete Volunteer Training, which is provided by our Family Engagement Specialist.

Parent Leadership Opportunities

We also encourage parents to take on leadership roles in our program. One important way to get involved is by serving on our Policy Council, the program’s decision-making body.

All parents are automatically members of the school’s Parent Committee, which meets monthly to plan events and activities for families and the school community. Parents of children in Head Start, VPI, and ECSE are also members of the Parent Center Committee, which also meets monthly.


Parents are invited and encouraged to attend Policy Council and School Board meetings, as well as participate in events such as parenting classes, Family Literacy Nights (held on Mondays), the Thanksgiving Family Dinner, the Volunteer Celebration, and other free workshops and seminars designed to support and empower families. Many of these opportunities are made possible through our valued community partners.


These events are great opportunities to strengthen parenting skills, connect with other families, and expand your experiences.

Your Involvement Matters

As a family member, your support and involvement are key to the success of our program. Each year, self-assessment teams—made up of parents, community members, and staff—review program operations to ensure quality and effectiveness.


Parenting sessions also provide a space for families to learn, connect, and share ideas on raising children. All family activities are open to all Early Childhood parents and families.

Family and Community Partnerships

Our staff is excited to partner with you and your family. As a parent, you are a valuable member of our team. Through the Policy Council, parents are actively involved in program governance, program design, and classroom instruction. We encourage all parents to engage in both the program and the classroom. To volunteer effectively, please work in advance with your child’s teacher to find the best opportunities for involvement.


Parents also have access to a variety of adult education opportunities, including G.E.D. classes. We offer workshops on a wide range of topics such as nutrition, health, safety, parenting skills, child development, mental health, substance abuse, child support services, community resources, job training, prenatal care, fire safety, and many other areas of interest.

Family Services

Our Family Services staff serves as a vital link between families and community resources. Each Head Start, VPI, and Early Head Start (EHS) family is assigned a Family Service Worker. Their primary role is to support families as they work toward strengthening their household and improving their daily lives.


Every family completes a Family Partnership Agreement, which outlines personal and family goals for the year. Family Service Workers help you take steps to achieve these goals and offer support along the way.


If you need referrals or information about a specific community agency, our staff is here to assist you. Each family will also receive a Community Resource Guide to help you become more familiar with available services in the area.


Early Childhood Feedback Form Early Childhood Feedback Form

Our program welcomes feedback as part of our commitment to a culture of continuous improvement. We believe that open communication and a cooperative attitude can help resolve most concerns. However, some issues related to policy, procedure, or law may not be easily resolved. If a concern involves compliance with applicable policies, procedures, or laws, written feedback may be submitted using this form.


If a family or community member has a concern, the Principal will meet with the individual within ten (10) working days of receiving the concern. The individual may bring a representative, if desired, and will have the opportunity to present evidence. A written decision addressing the concern will be provided within ten (10) working days following the meeting.


If the individual is not satisfied with the decision, they may request a review by the Policy Council Grievance Committee by submitting a written appeal within ten (10) working days of receiving the original decision. The individual will be informed of any proposed solutions. If the solution is not accepted, a final appeal may be made to the Policy Council at least ten (10) working days before its next regularly scheduled meeting.

STANDARDS OF CONDUCT STANDARDS OF CONDUCT

Volunteers, staff, contractors and consultants will respect and promote the unique identity of each child and family and will not stereotype on the basis of gender, race, ethnicity, culture, religion, disability, sexual orientation, or family composition.


Volunteers and staff will follow program confidentiality policies concerning information about children, families, and other staff members, including personally identifiable information.

No child will be left alone or unsupervised while under our care. No child is left alone with a staff member, contractor or consultant who has not had a full criminal and child protective services background check. No child is left alone with a volunteer.


Volunteers, consultants contractors and staff will use positive methods of child guidance to support children’s well-being and prevent and address challenging behavior. They will not maltreat or endanger the health or safety of children, will not engage in corporal punishment or physically abuse a child, will not bind or tie a child to restrict movement, or tape a child’s mouth.


They will not use any form of emotional or physical abuse, including public or private humiliation, rejecting, terrorizing, extended ignoring or corrupting a child or humiliation. They will not use any form of verbal abuse, including profane, sarcastic language, threats, or derogatory remarks about the child or child’s family.


In addition, they will not employ methods of discipline that involve isolation, the use of food as punishment or reward, the use of physical activity or outdoor time as punishment or reward, or the denial of basic needs. Some students with special needs may require food as a positive reinforcement until another effective method is determined.


Volunteers, staff, contractors and consultants may not use toilet learning/training methods that punish, demean, or humiliate a child.

Anyone entering either school must have a photo ID. Pictures of IDs on phones will not be accepted.

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